When we live together..
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
Assalamualaikum!
InshaAllah today i want to share something that maybe some of you guys have experienced,and so am i.
this post is mainly on my personal opinion living andadapting ourselves together as one family.and truly,i have learned many things in the past two months we stayed as a family in Alexandria.
first,
it was never as easy as i thought earlier.everyone of us has our likes and dislikes.And we even came from different background,which obviously makes the difference.It was really different from living is hostels,dorms etc. Living in a home where we share our money,food,place to sleep and study, sometimes are not in our favour,not to mention that we are studying here in Egypt.As for example,one have a problem,but he never told anyone about it,even the housemates.This will form a conflict when we are doing or talking that related to that problem. We have no knowledge,we talk about it,he gets angry,then quarrel,took time to cool down and the roller coaster keeps rolling.Fortunately,take note this,it will never be as hard as you might expected! Just be POSITIVE. d(^_^)b
second,
dakwah. Some people among us always have a good concern on dakwah,but in reality dakwah starts in our own home.Even the Prophet SAW started his mission of spreading the true Aqidah to Khadijah binti Khuwailid r.anha. Same goes to us,all of us. Therefore it is not coincidentally that there are 'some-things' that need to be repaired in our own house.Showing islamic values in our daily life,like performing solah in masjid,if not by jamaah at home,not hesitate on doing house chores,and even straining ourselves from doing unbenificial activities.These should be a simple but effective way in dakwah.It is essential to see that the difference between people should make us to know more,understand more,and help more.Seems familiar?Of course lah, Taaruf,tafahum,and takaful :)
third,
no one can live alone. Never in a life of a human,he can live by himself.Prophet Adam as also could not afford living alone,though he is enjoying the most pleasurable pleasure of all,al-Jannah!
in my scope of view,living together is not enough,when we just let it be as it is,or should i say take for granted.
OR in a simpler words,no UKHUWWAH at all.
we may live together,but never really know his or her background.
we may eat together,but never exactly know what his or her favourite dish.
we also may study together,but never actually care about his/ her grades.
Hence,these are the things that we must consider if we are to live together as housemates.
Finally,
i would love to refresh the 10 Muwassofat Tarbiah or the 10 Quality that must be observed by muslims,especially we as the young Duat, as arranged by As-Syahid Hassan al-Banna,
Barakallahu fikum.InsyaAllah ^_^
"Allah does not charge a soul except [with that within] its capacity. "
(al-Baqarah,286..)
Assalamualaikum!
InshaAllah today i want to share something that maybe some of you guys have experienced,and so am i.
this post is mainly on my personal opinion living andadapting ourselves together as one family.and truly,i have learned many things in the past two months we stayed as a family in Alexandria.
first,
it was never as easy as i thought earlier.everyone of us has our likes and dislikes.And we even came from different background,which obviously makes the difference.It was really different from living is hostels,dorms etc. Living in a home where we share our money,food,place to sleep and study, sometimes are not in our favour,not to mention that we are studying here in Egypt.As for example,one have a problem,but he never told anyone about it,even the housemates.This will form a conflict when we are doing or talking that related to that problem. We have no knowledge,we talk about it,he gets angry,then quarrel,took time to cool down and the roller coaster keeps rolling.Fortunately,take note this,it will never be as hard as you might expected! Just be POSITIVE. d(^_^)b
second,
dakwah. Some people among us always have a good concern on dakwah,but in reality dakwah starts in our own home.Even the Prophet SAW started his mission of spreading the true Aqidah to Khadijah binti Khuwailid r.anha. Same goes to us,all of us. Therefore it is not coincidentally that there are 'some-things' that need to be repaired in our own house.Showing islamic values in our daily life,like performing solah in masjid,if not by jamaah at home,not hesitate on doing house chores,and even straining ourselves from doing unbenificial activities.These should be a simple but effective way in dakwah.It is essential to see that the difference between people should make us to know more,understand more,and help more.Seems familiar?Of course lah, Taaruf,tafahum,and takaful :)
third,
no one can live alone. Never in a life of a human,he can live by himself.Prophet Adam as also could not afford living alone,though he is enjoying the most pleasurable pleasure of all,al-Jannah!
in my scope of view,living together is not enough,when we just let it be as it is,or should i say take for granted.
OR in a simpler words,no UKHUWWAH at all.
we may live together,but never really know his or her background.
we may eat together,but never exactly know what his or her favourite dish.
we also may study together,but never actually care about his/ her grades.
Hence,these are the things that we must consider if we are to live together as housemates.
Finally,
i would love to refresh the 10 Muwassofat Tarbiah or the 10 Quality that must be observed by muslims,especially we as the young Duat, as arranged by As-Syahid Hassan al-Banna,
- قَوِيُّ الْجِسْمِ - a strong physical
- مَثِينُ الْخُلُق - a perfect akhlaq
- قَادِرًا عَلَى الْكَسْبِ - independent
- مُثَقَّفُ الْفِكْرِ - knowledgeable
- سَلِيم الْعَقِيدَة - a prosper Aqidah
- صَحِيحُ الْعِبَادَة - a true Ibadah
- مُجَاهَدَا عَلَى نفْسِهِ - able to strain from desire
- مُنَطَّمُ فِى شُؤُنِهِ - an orderly work
- حَرِيصًا عَلَى الْوَقتِ - punctual
- نَافِعٌ لِغَيْرِهِ - beneficial to others
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| ukhwah itu umpama air,dicincang takkan putus(please!do try this at home ) |
Barakallahu fikum.InsyaAllah ^_^
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